|Melissa’s SUV||Dave’s SUV||Notes|
|Down payment||$10,000||$10,000||They both put $10,000 down, and only at the end of signing the financing papers did Michael say that the monthly amount would be “slightly more” than the $600 they had budgeted.|
|Monthly financing cost||$650 a month for 6 years||$625 a month for 5.5 years|
|Subtotal||$46,800||$41,250||They both bought similar SUVs, but Melissa’s was a bit more expensive.|
Decided upon in under two hours.
Where they went wrong
Let’s dissect where Melissa and Dave went wrong and how you can avoid making the same mistakes. You’ll see that if you plan ahead and do your research, like with anything else in life, you’ll almost always come out on top.
Misstep #1: Zero prep
Dave and Melissa learned how not to buy a car the hard way, when they moved to a suburban neighbourhood in Calgary and were embarrassed by how much their van and compact car stood out on the street. Everyone had a shiny new truck or SUV, an apparent necessity in the prairie winters—“Think of the twins’ safety!” was enough to convince them. Melissa and Dave were exhausted from the move, overwhelmed with getting the kids in their new school, adjusting to a new life, trying to make friends at work and at home, but they decided to shop for a new car. They had no idea what make, model, or vehicle they were looking for, but they wanted this project ticked off their long to-do list.
With the ease of the internet, there’s no reason Melissa and Dave should have shown up at the closest dealership to walk away with two SUVs and a whopping $88,050 in debt! It’s never been easier to calmly and rationally decide on the type of vehicle that will match your needs and desires by doing a few hours of research over the span of a week or two in the comfort of your own home.
Misstep #2: Hungry parents, cranky kids
Tired, hot, and hungry after a hectic week following a big move, Melissa and Dave fell victim to some bad decisions. I’m sure you’ve found yourself in a similar situation, but when avoidable, I’d advise not making any decisions that will cost you almost $100,000 in this state. Did you know that judges are 65% more likely to grant parole after lunch? Considering the fact that judges are highly educated, experienced, and supposedly impartial authority figures, you wouldn’t think such a major decision could be so drastically swayed by a full stomach. But if judges can’t think straight on an empty stomach, then you probably can’t either. The study revealed that it wasn’t just low blood sugar that affected a judge’s decision, but rather a depletion of their cognitive capacity caused by decision fatigue.
On top of the hunger and exhaustion, Melissa and Dave were likely also suffering from decision fatigue. Think about all the decisions you make in a day: Did you get up right away this morning or hit the snooze button? Should you wear the green striped shirt or the white button-up? Did you have coffee at home or Starbucks on the way to work? Will you ask your colleague to go for lunch or eat at the deli on your own? I’m tired just thinking about it! Each day you make dozens, if not hundreds, of microdecisions. If at the end of the day you have to make a major decision like buying a car, a house, or even a suit that you saw on sale, you might suffer from decision fatigue. You’re more likely to buy something you don’t need or want, fail to accurately calculate the costs, neglect to consider your options, or worse, fall prey to someone else’s decision—whether that’s a retailer, financial institution, or salesperson. I’d advise being very cautious, and if possible, take the day off work when you’re making major life decisions or purchases. This advice can also be applied when choosing or meeting with your financial planner, getting a mortgage or life insurance, or setting up your child’s RESP—to name a few.
Misstep #3: Reciprocity rule
At the dealership, the twins were agitated, Melissa and Dave hadn’t eaten since breakfast, and there were endless options in the showroom and out on the massive parking lot. As the hot sun beat down, the sales guy approached with ice-cold bottles of water and pretzels for the kids—it was love at first sight! Michael, a friendly face in the sea of car options, immediately narrowed their choices with two easy questions, “What are you going to use the vehicle for, and how much can you afford?”
Melissa and Dave shouldn’t have taken the cold water and pretzels from Michael. Sounds extreme? Let me explain. If you do something for me today, you’ll likely expect that I will return the favour later. That’s reciprocity, and it’s been necessary for survival throughout history. The funny thing about reciprocity is that it’s so deeply rooted that we often unconsciously want to pay people back. Unfortunately, this means that we can very easily be exploited by retailers and salespeople. Even the smallest gesture can establish a feeling that you “owe” the other person. Subconsciously, Melissa and Dave felt like they
Misstep #4: Not crunching the numbers
Melissa and Dave didn’t prepare for the extra costs that came attached to undercarriage protection, loan protection, disability protection, and other admin fees. Retailers—especially car dealers—are experts at giving us small numbers that seem manageable. I’m sure you’ve heard something along the lines of “It’s only a few dollars a day/week/month, and then you too can be happy and live a fulfilling life with this new _______.” So tempting! When you crunch the numbers and see the entire cost—over a year and the entire term of the financing (if paying with a credit card, getting a loan, etc.), the larger sum engages a different— more rational—part of your brain. But sometimes we don’t think clearly, especially if the total cost is buried in a mountain of fees under less than ideal circumstances—such as getting your car loan or mortgage at the end of a busy day. Your brain is likely to gloss right over it! Does your brain mysteriously tune it out? It’s not exactly a scientific answer, but I believe that’s more or less what happens. It’s just too much for our brains to comprehend when we are focused on something else. You just want to get the car, get the financing process over with, and get the keys. It’s easy to overlook something like a few tens of thousands of dollars in interest. So once you’ve had time to settle from the rush and stress of the process, pull those discarded documents out of their drawer. You might be able to pay the loan off sooner than you think.